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Helping Families Resolve Divorce Issues in Minnesota

Divorce mediationMarriage is a legal relationship that is regulated by state law. As a corollary, state courts are responsible for issues regarding the termination of that legal relationship. Thus, Minnesota courts are tasked with the job of presiding over litigation concerning divorce.

Divorce proceedings can be very complicated, as they often involve different legal issues arising under Minnesota family law. As a result, the divorce process generally demands assistance from a legal professional with a sophisticated understanding of the substantive laws and procedural rules governing divorce issues in Minnesota.

Generally, divorce cases involve the following matters:

  • Division of marital assets and liabilities: When a couple gets divorced, they must determine who is allocated the assets and liabilities they acquired during their marriage. In Minnesota, courts perform an “equitable distribution” of marital property and debts upon divorce. This means that marital property and obligations are not necessarily equally divided. Instead, courts consider various factors in how to “equitably” apportion the property in question.
  • Spousal maintenance: In divorce cases, one spouse might not have sufficient financial resources to cover their living expenses after their marriage ends. Under Minnesota law, such a spouse may be entitled to financial assistance from their former spouse—known as “spousal maintenance,” “spousal support,” or “alimony.”
  • Child custody: If a divorcing couple had a child together who has not reached adulthood by the time of their separation, they must determine their respective rights and responsibilities regarding the child’s physical care and upbringing.
  • Child support: In all cases the parents have a duty to provide their child with financial support.

What Can I Do Instead of Divorce in MN?

As an alternative to conventional litigation, many divorce cases are privately settled through mediation proceedings. Mediation is an alternative form of dispute resolution that promotes cooperation and compromise between the parties. The parties can discuss and negotiate divorce issues under the guidance of a neutral third party, known as a mediator. Mediators are often legal professionals with experience in divorce matters—such as attorneys and retired judges.

Divorce inherently involves situations where an important personal and legal relationships—a marriage—has come to an end. Often, what was once considered to be a strong relationship is at its most vulnerable time, as the parties must navigate the legalities of terminating their marriage. This can affect other relationships too—namely the parent-child relationship in cases involving minor children.

The American civil justice system is predicated on the parties contending to promote and preserve their respective interests. This is an adversarial system where the litigants are essentially competing against each other to protect their legal rights and interests.

However, the adversarial system of litigation has been shown to exacerbate conflict between family members in family law cases. Given the very personal nature of divorce, it is easy for the parties to lose sight of what is most important to themselves and their families as they strive to “win” their case. This can result in protracted and expensive courtroom battles. In many cases, a party may “win” the case, but ultimately lose thousands of dollars in attorney’s fees and court costs.

The Divorce Mediation Process

Generally, a divorce mediation will go through the following five stages:

  1. Introductory Stage - During the first stage, you and your spouse provide the divorce mediator with background information about your case and the mediator will outline how the meetings will be conducted.

  2. Information-Gathering Stage - The divorce mediator will likely begin to discuss the general legal rules that may apply to your case. The mediator will also ask you and your spouse to bring in financial documents (tax returns, bank and mortgage statements, etc.). The purpose of this stage is for you and your spouse to have all the facts and information you need to negotiate a legally binding agreement that you won’t regret signing.

  3. Framing Stage - Each spouse outlines their reasons for wanting certain outcomes in the settlement, i.e., their “needs and interests,” in order to help the divorce mediator find a resolution that successfully addresses each of the spouse’s priorities.

  4. Negotiating Stage - Once the mediator has helped the spouses frame their issues and interests, it is time to negotiate an acceptable settlement by providing all possible options.

  5. Concluding Stage - A tentative agreement is put into writing and provided for both spouses to review. Many mediators will also prepare the formal settlement agreement that will be filed with the court.

What Is the Benefit of Mediation?

The parties can reap the following benefits during divorce mediation:

  • Privacy: Negotiations and discussions that take place during mediation are typically private, whereas court proceedings are a matter of public record that can be easily accessed by virtually anyone.
  • Efficiency: Mediation is an informal process that is not restricted by rules of procedure. As a result, the parties can resolve important divorce issues at their own pace. This can be potentially expedited for cases where the parties find common ground and a mutual understanding of each other’s interests and goals.
  • Control: During mediation, the parties drive negotiations and discussions. Since mediation is typically an informal proceeding conducted privately, the parties are not subject to the often congested dockets and schedules of the public courts.
  • Convenience: Mediation proceedings do not have to take place in a courtroom. Typically, the parties get to choose when and where a mediation session will take place. The parties can resolve their dispute from the comfort of a private conference room.

In a divorce case, it is important for the parties to salvage what is left of their relationship and move forward amicably. Dissolving your marriage does not imply that the bridge between you and your former spouse should be burned. Your former spouse may still be an important relationship for you in the future—especially if the two of you must coordinate as co-parents of a minor child.

Is Divorce Mediation Faster Than a Traditional Divorce?

Mediation is typically faster than going to divorce court, but the actual length depends on several factors, such as the amount of assets you have; how many issues need to be discussed (and how willing you are to compromise on these issues); and whether child custody is involved.

You Deserve Guidance in Divorce Mediation Proceedings

If you are confronted with the prospect of divorce and are concerned about the costs and challenges of litigation, there are alternative options for you. At FairWell Family Law Mediation, our Washington County divorce mediation lawyer can advise you about the benefits of mediation and whether the process is appropriate for your case.

To schedule a free initial consultation about your Minnesota divorce, please contact our Washington County divorce mediation lawyer online today. We serve the entire Twin Cities area!

Why Choose FairWell Family Law Mediation?

  • Timely Results

    We understand that divorce can become a lengthy process. Our priority at FairWell is to help give you peace of mind by helping to make your divorce as efficient and as quick as possible.

  • Experienced Mediators

    Our FairWell Guides have decades of collective experience in successfully guiding couples through our divorce mediation process and helping them come to an agreement.

  • Automated Technology

    Our state of the art FairWell document creation system makes it so that we are able to provide our clients with fixed pricing, error-free court documentation, and a faster divorce process.

  • Fixed Prices

    We understand the financial burden and stresses of a divorce. Our goal at FairWell is to help give you peace of mind in knowing that a divorce is possible without the stresses of unknown expenses.